The first time a partner tried to initiate dirty talk with me, I clammed up. It was sexy as hell to hear them whispering these words to me, but I had no idea what to say back. I was clueless and felt so self-conscious that I said I wasn’t into it. Now I know that dirty talk can be amazing when you know what you’re doing.
Dirty talk can be a lot of fun. It adds a bit of extra excitement into bedroom activities, and helps things not to go stale. Still, I would say that it is maybe the most difficult sexual thing to do well. To put it bluntly, it is something that if you do badly, you sound like an idiot, or even worse, a pervert.
BDSM is an exciting world. It is all about control, whether you are the one with it or the one giving it up. It is thrilling to play with control, but one thing many people forget about when doing it is the dirty talk.
For most people, dirty talk is something that they enjoy in the bedroom. It leaves them feeling fantastic and turned on, ready for what is to come. It also gives them an idea of what to expect, based on the kinky things that their partner has said.
“Let’s talk about sex, baby” might be a line in a catchy song, but we find it so hard to open up on the subject of sex. We’d rather stumble through sex with a partner instead of simply asking them what they like. We feel awkward and uncomfortable saying “tell me what you want” when it is the quickest way to please our partners. So why can’t we talk sex?
A lot of people like to think that they are pretty straight-laced when it comes to their interests in the bedroom. They like things vanilla and won’t ever stray to more exciting flavours of sex… even when the temptation is there. However, there seems to be one thing that a lot of people cannot resist… and that is dirty talk.
If you have ever read the ‘Dirty Phrases for European Girls’ article on XEscorts and enjoyed it, then be prepared to read volume 2! I hope that many of you, sexy readers, have learned a couple of words that could make any Spanish, French or Italian woman blush.
XEscorts loves to give the punters sugar, spice and all things nice! It’s a fantastic experience to have when you’re meeting sexy girls who’ve come from different parts of Europe. Spain, Italy, France; you name it! That is why having some dirty phrases you can use is great.
For some people, talking dirty comes as naturally to them as breathing. They know exactly what to say to turn you on and they know just when to say it. They never seem stuck for the perfect thing to say, making it all seem very natural. Then there are some who have such difficulty with dirty talk that the mere suggestion of it makes them panic in case they say something so outrageous that their partner just gets up and walks away.