BDSM

BDSM is an exciting world. It is all about control, whether you are the one with it or the one giving it up. It is thrilling to play with control, but one thing many people forget about when doing it is the dirty talk.

Thanks to the popularity of the Fifty Shades series, more and more people are opening up their minds to the idea of domination. The idea of having another person take control of them, of punishing them for things they have done, is a turn on to some. Others aren’t so sure, as they don’t want to have pain inflicted upon them.

Ask a lot of people what BDSM is and they might tell you that it’s all “weird and kinky shit”. They think that it is all about pain and torture. They don’t understand that it is about giving up control to somebody else because it turns you on. Sometimes they will even suggest that there is “something wrong” with the dominants and submissives.

We might not like the series, but Fifty Shades of Grey has brought the world of BDSM to the front of people’s kinky minds. They want to explore this side of sex and discover some thing new. You get the chance to really let yourself go wild with BDSM, as your domme will take control and reign you in when needed.

Many people believe that BDSM is as simple as saying “fuck me hard” and leaving it at that. Oh no. BDSM is so much more, and is a lot of fun when you truly explore its depths. To do so, you’ll need a good dominant to take you through it… but you’ll also need to learn to be a good slave.

Have you ever noticed that some of the Olympian swimmers, like Michael Phelps the beautiful dolphin, have giant red spots on their backs?

I’m sure that everyone on this earth has thought about the world of sadism & masochism at least once, where they pondered about what the life of a little piggy is like. Some people have taken that thought a step further and started to think about being a little piggy themselves.

Guys, you can’t knock BDSM until you’ve tried it. I mean, if it’s so bad, then why are there so many lingerie shops selling D/S equipment, or so many people talking about how exhilarating it is on Youtube?

If you are struggling to get through your work day, you might think that a little pick-me-up is in order. Some people decide to treat themselves to a coffee to get them through the rest of the day. Others will head out for a little S&M session… but imagine if you could combine them both at a BDSM coffee shop.

If there’s one thing that I haven’t experienced in my sex life, it would be sex machines. Well, that and watersports. And hardsports.