Kissing, when done right, can feel incredible. Whether it is a quick smooch outside of a restaurant after an incredible date or you have been making out with your partner in the lead up to sex, kisses can be mind-blowing. However, it is very easy to get it wrong.
We all have different preferences when it comes to making out with somebody. Some don’t like kissing with tongues, while others can’t get enough of French kisses. So how do you know if you are doing it right, and what can you do to make sure you are?
Talk to your partner
This is the best piece of advice you’ll get in relation to sex and relationships. You should talk to your partner if you ever feel unsure about anything… and even if you are confident, it can help to open up an open and honest conversation anyway.
Talking about sex can be difficult, and kisses can be even more so. We often take things our partner might say as direct criticism, but really they just want to help us. By showing that we are willing to listen, you’ll find it much easier to talk to them about anything and everything.
Plus, it is the best way to find out what it is your partner likes when it comes to sharing passionate kisses with them. If they tell it to you straight you know exactly where you stand!
Like sex, you shouldn’t just rush in when it comes to sharing hot and passionate kisses with your partner. Often short, light kisses can be just as much of a turn on as the longer ones! You want to slowly build up the passion and the tension, and the best way to do this is to go slowly.
Press your lips lightly to your partner’s, then pull back. A few teasing kisses like this can really turn them on and put them in the mood, and often you’ll find that they then chase your lips with theirs in order to make the kisses last for longer.
You’ll know when the time is right to amp up the pressure if you listen to your partner. They might try to deepen each kiss and make it last longer. This is a sure sign that you should move on to more kisses.
Open mouth kissing
The next step to move onto from simple kisses is to open mouth kissing. This allows you to really make things more passionate and to also move things along. The problem with this type is that people often go too far.
You are not trying to eat their face off. You want to turn them on. Go slowly and apply a little pressure to make it feel good, but make sure you also give them space. You don’t want to inhale them. You just want to make them feel good, so like with the earlier kisses you want to go slowly to build up the tension.
Indulge in the French style
Although this next one isn’t for everyone, some really get a kick out of the French style. French kissing is one of the most popular methods you can try, and allows you to kiss your partner and get your tongue involved along the way!
Obviously slipping your tongue into her mouth does not mean that you should suddenly become the spin cycle on a washing machine. You aren’t trying to over power her… you want to meet her tongue and gently slide your tongue around it.
It will feel incredibly sensual and sexy when you do this. Try to keep down the amount of saliva you are swapping or it will be a bit too much. Find that you have too much? You can always move your mouth to her neck for a while until it calms down.
Kissing isn’t all about the lips
While we use our lips to share a number of hot and steamy kisses, there are actually a number of other things you can do to enhance your experience. For example, you can get your hands involved.
When you kiss your partner you can slowly slide your hand along their jaw. This is a huge turn on and will send shivers down their spine. It’ll really make things feel intimate.
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